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On Your Journey Through Life it Pays to Stop and See How Far You’ve Come
3 min readAug 6, 2022
I turned 49 yesterday (8.5).
I’m not a big birthday guy; I’ve never been. It’s just another day to me.
However, my perspective is shifting, and this year’s different.
As I go deeper into the back nine of my life, I see the value of taking a step back to review and reflect.
It’s been a tumultuous decade, one that merits attention.
It pays to stop and look at how far we’ve come on life’s journey.
- At 39, I thought I had it “all.” I owned multiple homes, drove beautiful cars, wore 5-figure watches, and had a solid corporate career — but I felt empty.
- At 40, I was arrested by the FBI and sentenced to 2 years of federal prison.
- At 41, I lost everything and was planning my suicide.
- At 41, I was given the priceless gift of understanding I had worth outside of what I always believed gave me worth.
- At 41, I began the journey of reinventing my life.
- At 45, I forgave myself.
- At 46, I began coaching clients.
- At 46, I conquered my fear of public speaking and delivered a TEDx.
- At 47, I became a Reinvention…