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Reflections on Self-Worth and Growth at 51
3 min readAug 6, 2024
I turned 51 yesterday.
Birthdays are an excellent opportunity to reflect, and I looked into a collection of lines I’ve written that jump out to me.
They’re epiphanies, things I’m coming to understand, things I want to explore deeper, messages directed at myself, and questions I’d like to answer.
I have a ton of them (I’ll eventually create a 365-day book), but here are some that are jumping out to me on my birthday.
- I am worthy of the work.
- Complacency is living life in reverse.
- How I see myself is how others see me.
- I don’t have to operate from old wounds.
- The more scary things I do, the safer I become.
- Things are only as complex as I choose to make them.
- Vulnerability is an outward expression of self-acceptance.
- My soul’s deepest desire is one of my ego’s deepest fears.
- Create a process I love, and I’ll love myself into a life I love.
- When I operate from my wounds, I make choices that lead to regret.
- I wasn’t born with limiting beliefs; I learned them, and I can unlearn them.
- Can I remember who I was before I…