The “Perfect” Trap

Perfectionism is fear of our own humanity and fallibility. It’s an unrealistic expectation designed to keep us small.

It’s the fear of being seen as less than — the fear of what someone may say.

It’s self-centered and self-punishment under the guise of self-improvement.

Letting go of perfectionism is one of the most liberating things you can do. It’s an act of love and…

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