Why The Pursuit of Perfection is the Cultivation of Self-Punishment

Perfectionism is fear.

But it’s also much deeper than that.

Not only is striving for perfectionism capitulating to fear — it’s destroying your self-worth and your sense of being enough.

Perfectionism is a malicious form of self-punishment.

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Reinvention Architect|Author|TEDx I write about my journey from the corporate world to the rock bottom of federal prison and reinventing my life.

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Reinvention Architect|Author|TEDx I write about my journey from the corporate world to the rock bottom of federal prison and reinventing my life.

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